Conflict which I had before with my room/housemate and how I did solve it

Assalamualaikum and hi everyone!

Today I would like to share with you all about conflict which I had before with my room or housemate and how I did solve it. Actually this topic is quite interesting to discuss. I think everyone pernah mengalami masalah conflict between housemates or rommates termasuk saya sendiri. Let me give definition about conflict. Conflict refers to a difference of opinion caused by opposing attitudes, behaviors, ideas, needs, wants or goals. I think I also have conflict between my housemate but my conflict tidak la terlalu teruk sampai bermasam muka. It just happened when we have different opinion. In Diploma, I had some conflicts with my roommate. Actually dia seorang yang periang, baik, caring but the problem bila nak study.Cara dia study sangat la berbeza . So, for me its too hard nak focus study. My roommate study sambil mendengar lagu. Sangatlah mengganggu concentration nak study. So, when this happened, me and my other roommate talked to her about this problem. Actually, dia pun sedar apa yang dia buat. Actually tak banyak sangat conflict because I don’t like having a conflict with my friends. It make me feel more stressed. So, I think, if we have a problem or conflict with friends, so cepat cepat lah settle kan masalah. Its not good if we have a problem with friends. Actually there are some ways to prevent it such as build constructive relationship, discuss problems before they escalate to a conflict, watch your language when you are annoyed and stop and think before you react. That’s all for me.

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Friendship

Friends? I think everyone in the world has many friends. When talking about friends, I also have many friends. Bila orang Tanya, siapa kawan baik kamu? I think kawan baik sangat ramai tapi bila sebut pasal sahabat, I think sahabat sangat susah untuk dicari, sahabat ada bila kita susah dan senang, sahabat juga akan menjaga aib sahabatnya. Saya mempunyai rama.i kawan since I was a kid. Many of friends yang saya kenal but tidak semua boleh jadi kawan baik saya. Bila melangkah masuk sekolah rendah, masa itulah start cari kawan. Mula mula darjah satu, malu malu, takut nak berkawan, lama lama bila dah tegur, mula lah berkawan. Tapi sayangnya that friend pindah sekolah time darjah 2. Baru nak rapat sebab dah rasa boleh jadi kawan baik. Then, dapat pulak kawan baru. Masuk sekolah menengah pun sama sama and sampai lah sekarang kami still contact each other . Bila melangkah masuk ke university, mula lah risau nak cari kawan, then time part one dapat roommate yang sangat best, Nadia and fiza. Dorang memang satu kepala tambah nadia, kitorang selalu share apa apa. Xpenah pendam or terasa hati. Kitorang still contact sampai sekarang. Time part 3 dah start terpisah sebab lain bilik. My classmate semua best.Paling rapat sekali dengan group Wamina. Mariam,hawana, atin , nadiah omar, atira and intan, dorang  sangat gila gila. Best. Actually, saya ada someone memang special. Dia lah kawan, dialah teman, semualah, kitorang dah kawan almost four years. And I hope sangat kitorang kekal sampai bila bila. Insya Allah. Kalau ada jodoh tak kemana. And paling sayang my housemate beringin 30. Amalina kitorang punya taiko, nadiah omar yang selalu bg kata kata semangat, atira yang sangat caring, baik and setia, alia yang sangat berdikari, azira ratu k pop. Dialah yang ajar saya kenal Exo, sampai dah jatuh hati, sayang, memang peminat setia lah. Aisyah ibarat ibu kitorang, selalu buatkan the untuk kitorang, and kalau gelak sampai xingat dunia,and lastly ana, Nampak diam tapi gila gila jugak, I love and miss them so much. And last day before nak balik, memang nangis gila gila sebab takut xjumpa, takut lost contact, takut tak rapat mcm dulu, but kitorang still contact sampai sekarang. And now bila dah masuk degree dapat housemate baru. Actually dorang dari diploma yang sama, so no wonder la kitorang rapat. And I hope our friendship sampai bila bila.

what is Integrity and Ethics?share with us on your opinion on integrity and ethics

In my opinion, Integrity refers to consistency in adhering to moral principles. When you act with integrity, you do what you have determined is right even if the choices you make may cause complication for or for others. When choices are difficult, the outcomes need to be carefully considered. You have to consider what harm your choices may do as well as what good it may do. Integrity also means the quality of being honest with yourself and others. For example, if you are late for going to class every day and feel guilty about creating excuses for this behavior, this may be an opportunity to develop greater personal integrity.Developing integrity requires internal honesty, because we can’t be honest with others unless we are honest with ourselves. It requires self awareness, since we cannot accurately communicate what we do not know.

Actually, Ethics refers the standards or codes of behavior expected by a group to which an individual belongs. As a human being, we should have the ethics in our life. For example, as a student, we should go to class on time, so the people will respect us as we have ethical in class. Ethics also refers to accepted standards of right and wrong. Every day you have to make decisions whether at home, at school, at work, while shopping even while commuting.

My Family and Close Relatives

Assalamualaikum everyone.

Today i would like to share something about my family and my close relatives. Actually my family not too bigger but more than three of family members. Talking about my family, I have dad, mom, brother, two sisters and two little sisters. Okay, firstly, let me introduce a little bit about my dad and mom. My father's name is Kamaruddin Bin Jaafar. He was born on 10 June 1955 and now he is 59 years old. I know my dad is too old now but it doesn't matter because for me my dad still look young and handsome. Before this, my dad was a TNB worker. He worked as TNB worker before he was getting married with my mom and it has been more than twenty years old.  My dad is hardworking person, caring and concern to his family. One thing that my dad does not do is hitting me and my siblings. I dont know why maybe bacause it is one of the way he wants to teach us. My dad has many of siblings and he is second child from ten siblings.For me, its too big but i love on having big families like my dad, so wonderful. After my dad retired from work as TNB worker, he is doing wiring by himself. If he does not have a job, he will help my mom in the garden. I love my dad.

Now is about my adorable mom, Mrs. Asnah binti Othman. My mom is a housewife and now she is a babysitter. My mom was born on 24 May 1962 and now she is 52 years old. When talking about my mom, actually she is so caring to her family and she is good at cooking, sewing, planting vegetables and many else. I love my mom's laksa. It's so delicious. If I have any problems, I will share with my mom. So, my mom will give her advise to me. My mom always encouraging her children to reach their full potential. She supports us and always encourages us to after our dreams. She has taught us what is right and what is wrong and what we should do when we make a bad decision. I love my mom.

Now I would like to tell about my siblings. Firstly is my brother. My brother's name is Muhammad Azizul. He is 28 years old and not married yet. My brother works as a UPM worker. I think my brother is handsome when he was a teenager. No wonder he has many fans among the girls. He was quite active when he was at school. He was a football player. My brother is so lazy to wake early in the morning. I still remember when I was at primary school, I always wake he up to go to school but he ignores me until my mom scolded at him. Actually my brother and I not too close because we always fighting each other and he ever slapped me because i am too naughty when I was a kid. One thing that I like my brother is he will protect their sisters if someone disturb us. I still remember when I was at primary school, I had a fight with a boy because i dont like that boy. He was so annoying and I told my brother that the boy was hitting me with a  bottle then my brother saw him and scolded at him. I was so satisfied. That's a little bit about my brother. Second is my sisters. My first sister is NorFadzilah, now she is 27 years old and also not married yet. She works as a financial assistant at Secondary School. Before this, she studied at UITM Seri Iskandar in Diploma In Accounting and now she is doing part time as PJJ student in Degree in Marketing at UITM Arau, Perlis. I am too close with her. She always help me if I have any problems.

My second sister is Nor Atikah. She is 23 years old. Now she is studying at IPG Malaysia 

Miri, Sarawak in Major of Art. This year is her final year.It has been four years she at there. She is very kind, polite and sometime she is so talkative. I hope she can achieve her goal as a teacher. I love both of them. Now is about my little sisters. My first little sister is Nor Zalifah. She is 17 years old and now she is studying at MRSM Transkrian. Now, she is preparing to have SPM on November. I know she can do it and our family will always pray for her success. Lastly is Siti Noramirah. She is 16 years old and now she studies at Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Panglima Bukit Gantang. I have a cousin which she is like big sister. This is because when her mother was passed away, my late grandmother was took care of her since her baby. So no wonder we are too close with her. She is married and now she has one child. His name is Mukhlis Munaweer. He is two years old. He is very active and cute boy. My family love him especially my mom. I think that's  a little bit about my family.

My plans and where will I be in the next 5 years.What are the things which I am currently doing to ensure that my plans will work and how I manage my free time.

Assalamualaikum everyone.

Oh yes! Tomorrow is Hari Raya AidilAdha and my mom busy for preparing juadah-juadah for tomorrow.And I just said to my mom after I finish my blog, I will help you kemas dapur, ruang tamu and so on. Okay back to my topic is my plans and where will I be in the next 5 years. Actually dah lama thinking about it. Time zaman kecik-kecik cikgu pernah tanya when you are growing up, what are you like to be?and my answer is I would like to be a Teacher. Unfortunately, my answer always change and tak pernah static. Pernah nak jadi peguam, doktor, pembaca berita and at last nak jadi accountant because when I form 4 amik subject account and terus minat ke arah tu. But, bila dapat result sambung Diploma tak dapat nak amik account sebab dapat second choice which is banking. Nampak course tu very interesting kan. Actually yes and dah mula minat ke arah bank pulak. And Alhamdulillah dapat lah grad nanti. Then bila dah dapat result degree terus menangis and this is because my first choice was financing but I got Islamic Banking. I dont know why I should cried and I should thank to god dengan rezeki yang kita dapat. Ramai yang tak berpeluang nak further their study. I have many plans and one of my plan is I want to finish my study first. And bila dah masuk degree ni mesti lah kena hard sikit, tak boleh nak main main lagi. Its about my future. I want my parents proud of me. Thats why time degree kena study betul betul. Ada 3 sem for this degree and after that will be practical. Time tu dah mula berangan nak practical dekat bank then nak buat betul betul time practical, nanti boleh keja terus dekat sana. Now I am 21 years old, Insya Allah, kalau tak ada aral melintang I will grad when I am 23 years old. So, dah boleh mula fikir nak keja, nak kumpul duit, dapat bagi duit keja kat my parents, Before I will forget, nak dapatkat car license first. Then baru la boleh beli kereta. I think in the next Five year I will be a bank officer and then getting married.To ensure my plans will work, the most thing that i would like to do is study hard, ingat mak abah, family, banyak membantu dari segi kewangan, support untuk teruskan belajar. and dont give up cepat sangat, I always told my friend eventhough kita dapat course yang bukan kita nak, kita kena minat,jagan rasa course tu susah bagi kita, we need to face the challanges. Banyak lagi cabaran yang akan menanti kita.And how I manage my free time? Actually my free time diisi dengan tidur je lebih, pastu bersembang mengalahkan mak  mak je. I need to change free time. Sometimes, weekend bila dekat rumah sewa, petang2 je g jalan2 dekat kampung, tengok sawah padi, best sangat, rasa mendamaikan, But bila malam dah start study sikit sikit, recall balik apa yang lecturer ajar and i always ask my friends if ada soalan yang xfaham then they will explain to me. So i think I should stop at here. So before I stop Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Adha, Ikhlas dari KamarDina sekeluarga.